Unshared Spirituality or Religious beliefs

Marriage with unshared spirituality, where one partner is deeply religious or spiritual while the other is not, can pose certain challenges that often leads them to divorcing or fighting each other to death. These challenges may include:

1. **Differing Values and Beliefs**: Partners may have contrasting values, beliefs, and worldviews, which can lead to conflicts over important life decisions, such as child-rearing, moral choices, and lifestyle preferences.

2. **Communication Struggles**: Discussing matters related to spirituality or religion can become a source of tension. The religious partner may feel unsupported or misunderstood, while the non-religious partner may feel pressured or uncomfortable.

3. **Lack of Shared Rituals**: Spiritual practices and rituals that are meaningful to one partner may not hold the same significance for the other. The absence of shared rituals can create a sense of disconnect.

4. **Family Dynamics**: Differences in religious beliefs can affect relationships with extended family members, particularly during religious holidays or events. Pressure from family to conform to certain religious norms can strain the marriage.

5. **Child-Rearing Conflicts**: If the couple has children, deciding how to raise them in terms of religion and spirituality can be a major source of tension. This includes issues like religious education, ceremonies, and participation in religious communities.

6. **Social Isolation**: The religious partner may desire to participate in religious activities or social events related to their faith, which the non-religious partner may not feel comfortable attending. This can result in social isolation for one or both partners.

7. **Resentment**: Over time, if these differences are not addressed, they can lead to resentment and emotional distance within the marriage.

8. **Lack of Spiritual Connection**: The couple may miss out on the benefits of shared spiritual growth, support, and connection that are often experienced in spiritually centered marriages.

9. **Judgment and Criticism**: There can be a tendency to judge or criticize each other's beliefs, which can erode the respect and understanding needed for a healthy relationship.

10. **Decision-Making Challenges**: Differing spiritual beliefs can complicate major life decisions, such as where to live, career choices, and how to handle crises.

So its important to choose wisely, consider your own spirituality and communicate clearly and openly to find out your differences and how you gonna deal with them before you just say I do, especially when you know you are not willing to compromise. Ska no kitimela manyalo out of desperation.